May 26, 2026
What is a date me doc?A date me doc is a longform personal essay about who you are and what you're looking for in a partner. The concept started on personal blogs and now has its own platform.
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Thoughts on dating, writing, and finding real connection.
May 25, 2026
Longform Love vs Hinge, Bumble, Tinder, OkCupid, POF, Coffee Meets Bagel, and CuffedA honest comparison of dating apps. How Longform Love stacks up against the big names, and who each one is actually for.
May 11, 2026
How to Write About Yourself on a Dating AppPractical advice for writing a dating profile that actually sounds like you. No templates, no tricks, just honest writing that attracts the right person.
April 28, 2026
Online Dating for IntrovertsIf dating apps feel exhausting, it might be the format, not you. How writing-based dating works better for people who need time to open up.
April 21, 2026
Why Writing Beats SwipingSwiping is fast but shallow. Writing is slow but real. Why longform dating profiles lead to better connections than any algorithm.
April 14, 2026
How to Write a First Message on a Dating AppMost first messages are terrible because most profiles give you nothing to work with. Here's how to write one that actually starts a conversation.
April 7, 2026
What to Do When Dating Apps Feel HopelessDating app fatigue is real. If swiping feels like a chore, here's what's actually going wrong and what a different approach looks like.
